The choice to enter a coaching session, no matter the reason, is a difficult and sometimes painful one. We understand this and admire your bravery to take the first step to a new enriching life. We will aid you and we are ready to hold your hand through the entire journey of healing. Change is possible – and together, we can achieve it!
“Broken, but repairable”
We specialize in
Married couples
We help married couples rediscover the qualities that brought them together as well as look forward to the future while doing the necessary to stay together in harmony
Relationship
We work with unmarried people to preserve their relationships and realize the joy of being in their relationship and overcome daily dynamics affecting or impacting the relationship.
Singles
There is and should be joy in one being by them-self, and everyone who is single deserves it, we work with singles to find and embrace that joy.
Premarital counseling
Marriage is foreign and unique to each and every person, one can never be so sure of what they are getting into, we work with couples that are set for commitment to at most understand the uncertainty of the future, providing them with tools that will likely sustain their future together, this we do with the intention to minimize the chances of divorce.
Let go or continue
Unfortunately, in some instances one has to know when enough is enough, whether continuing with the relationship or marriage is worth it or not, we help couples make these decisions by realizing the risks and benefits involved in either or.
Events
We host events such as hiking, bootcamps, seminars, workshops, getaways and various others that aimed at sharing experiences and empower each other as couples.
What We Do
Certified Life Coach & NLP Practitioner
We firmly believe that there is no script or manual to a relationship, most of it is commonly trial and error, relationships or marriage are a challenge that one must adapt to and at the same time invest time and effort to make it work. Relationships need both partners to equally contribute to the success of their relationship however it is important for either of the partners to put in 100% regardless of what the other is doing. Before one is in a relationship, they are an individual and can start working on the attributes that make a successful relationship, individualism also contributes to a positive relationship though it should never take precedence over companionship.
We might not have gone through some of the things you are going through, but we have been through a lot and together we believe we can be better, learn from each other and empower each other to do better.
We are not here to tell you the best way of doing things but to walk the journey to self and relationship repair with you. You should never feel like you are alone when we are here to tell you that we have been through it.
Maybe it is best to be single or best to be in a relationship, we will work with you to the realization of which is best for you.
We are sexual, we love sexual discussions, we communicate openly, we could be better in finances, but we manage just fine, we get bored of our marriage at times, and oh we argue to the A, we are a challenged couple going/went through challenges of all nature.
We are looking for other people that are just like us, if you are not like us, don’t you worry, you need us and we need you, come through so we can talk about it.
We do all this via motivational talks, relationship counseling and coaching, seminars, workshops, one on one sessions, group discussions, learn and share events, and relationship-building events.
Help us help you, let us engage efforts and energy to make our relationships better.
Testimonials
“Our situation was much heavier before and when we started seeing you, but things began to steadily improve when we got to learn that our situation is normal and that you have went through some of the challenges we are going through, you have helped us realise that there is so much light to look forward to and it takes both of us to get to the place we desire, thank you IU Coaching❤️”
Lerato J
Our Story
Ndivhu and Shudu together imperfect union founders are a couple with over 10 years in marriage. We got married at the age of 19 and 22 respectively and throughout the course of our marriage we have had the privilege of going through trials and challenges of many kinds.
We have separated multiple times, we went through infidelities, we fought and reconciled. Through it all we kept repairing and still are, hence we call ourselves an imperfect union, a challenged couple that is broken but in the process of repair.
We do not know it all but we probably have experienced the most within the 11 years of being together.
Help us help you, let us engage
efforts and energy to make our
relationships better.
Why us? There is no reason really, the question is why not us, give us a try and see if we won’t just be the saving grace that you need. Its not necessarily about us but about you and us, what we can become when sharing relationship experiences, and learn from us while we learn from you.
Why not us? There are many relationship counselors and coaches out there, and we believe we are all on a mission to save and inspire relationships, however, we are driven by different things, and it is our experiences combined that make both our relationships better. You are counseled by our experience and your experience counsels us while at the same time bringing you the realization of areas to improve and navigate.
Contact Us
For more information, inquiries or booking,
1st consultation for discovery purposes will be at no charge.
After the 1st consultation, we will determine how many sessions you will need depending on the issue at hand.
We offer contact sessions and virtual sessions.